I’ve spoken to many amazing women and found that the main reasons they are not in loving relationships are:
They don’t want to attract the wrong person and be in another shitty relationship. In the words of Sid the Sloth: “No thanks, I choose life!”
They have no idea how to put themselves out there. The online dating realm is overwhelming. Taking selfies is not their cup of tea, so they swipe LEFT on the entire process!
They convince themselves they’re happier single! Until they’re binging Netflix with their cat and a bag of Cheetos, wondering if they’ll be single forever.
They are stuck in a cycle of wanting someone to share their life with, getting scared and staying single as a safe (but lonely) option.
Let me assure you that attracting your person is possible without the cringe!
To make attracting the right person easy and comfortable, I focus on building your confidence and trust from the inside out, as well as getting REALLY clear about what you actually want from a relationship and partner.
So here’s your permission slip to FINALLY let go of:
Worrying about being alone forever. You are worthy of a supportive relationship and your person will wait for you until you are ready to meet them. I promise!
Changing who you are to please another person! So take off your make-up, put your hair up in a bun and slip into something a little more comfortable (your Birkenstock’s. Extra sexy points for adding socks). Or do the opposite as long as it feels true to you!
Being afraid to get into another shitty relationship. You’ve done the work and it’s physically impossible for you to attract anything less than the amazing person you are. It’s Universal Law!
Putting yourself out there when you really don’t feel like it! Joining dating sites or sports teams is only a solution if you love those things. If you don’t, don’t do it. You will meet your person when the time is right.